The vast majority of people live their lives never really getting what they want. They suffer financially, with their choice of work, with their health and with their love life. In reality, what we want is really at our beck and call if we use the correct method to bring them to us. Guess what? That correct method is the Law of Attraction.
Many people have never heard of the Law, others have a vague cognizance of it. Many who are aware of it either don’t understand it or cannot figure out how to use it. But, the Law of Attraction is there for our taking. We can either learn to understand it and how it works or we can remain ignorant of it and continue to suffer lack because of our chosen ignorance.
Now that we are aware of the Law of Attraction, let’s see how we can start to understand it more deeply so we CAN make it work for us. But first let’s take a brief look at why most of us don’t get what we want in life and why if we are trying to use the Law, it is not working for us.
Your Inner World Determines Your Outer Reality
The physical world we choose to live in is a mirror image of our inner world. Even further, our physical world is a result of exactly how we think about it. Yes, what we think about events in our life will be exactly the world we live in and see around us. Reality is exactly how you think it is, no matter what you think! If you think and feel your inner world is harmonious, everything will be in its proper place and you will be in perfect harmony. If you think the world is a horrible place full of fear and danger, that is exactly what it will be, no matter the reality.
If your inner world is dominated by feelings of anger, doubt, hate, remorse, guilt and pain, as a result, you will only experience constant struggle and disharmony. While it is almost impossible to change the world that surrounds you, it is possible for you to change how you think about it. By changing how you think about it, you will then change what happens inside you and to you. Understanding this concept about your thinking is key to making the Law of Attraction work for you. This is the key that allows some to have the Law work for them while others struggle.
Let’s look at some of the reasons the Law of Attraction doesn’t work for people.
You Must Take Action
While believing in your dreams is nice, this alone will not manifest them for you. You must take action. You must do things regularly and with passion. Create your Vision Board. Look at it daily and imagine those ideas and pictures are you actually experiencing them. Set aside time to meditate each and every day. Take an inner scan of your body to determine who you are right at this moment and feel that feeling. Don’t be afraid to break from a routine and make small changes that you can easily do and accept. Get some exercise every day by doing something as simple as taking a long walk. If you are unwilling to perform actions that are new and challenging to you, you will never change how you think, and will not be able to manifest your dreams. Start today. Everything gets easier with practice.
Learning to Accept Failure
Have you learned to accept your failures? Failure is an inevitable but necessary part of life. It is key to experiencing positive growth. While you may not have ever put together the thought of failure with the thought of positive growth, it is a critical part of our growth. We must learn that failure is actually just a chance to start again. If we fight this notion and do not accept it in a positive fashion, we will only come to believe that we deserve failure and more of it will surely come our way.
We must not give power to failure by focusing on it and regretting it and wondering why this has happened to me. All that attention is sure to bring even more failed incidents into our life. The Law of Attraction doesn’t choose what you want, you do. If you choose to spend your energy thinking about your failures, the universe will think you want more. Hey, that is what you are thinking about, eh? You must want more! If you expect defeat, that is what you will get, and a vicious cycle begins and as a result is solidified as yours.
But here is the deal you can be dealt: if you develop the core belief that we will be successful. Failures are viewed as merely a learning experience and we only need to back up a bit, learn from the failed effort, and keep going. Soon, we will have successful outcomes and our subconscious mind will soon be convinced we are meant to be successful. We will then attract success. Once again, we are shaping our beliefs and creating our future, but now we are creating a positive future. Remember, “like attracts like.”
The Virtue of Patience
It is going to take some time for you to change your thinking. You need to develop positive habits and a clear vision of who you are now. And as a result, who you want to be. Overcoming lifelong viewpoints and opinions about you and the world around you takes some time. So, learn to be patient, trust the process and be diligent. If you lose patience and give up, the changes will stop happening and the process will halt. Trust your vision, trust your ability, be patient and, as a result, more than you can imagine will be yours.